为自己加油

To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not a smothering of the person or a possessive clinging.（ ）

A.
...the person who I care about will depend on me. 
B.
...my strong affection will make the person choke. 
C.
...my love will not be a hurting control of the person. 
D.
...the person will feel my caring while under my control.