Iconsidermyselfsomethingofanexpertonapologies．Aquiettemperhas41mewithplentyofopportunitiestomakethem．Inoneofmyearliest42，mymotheristellingme，“Don’twatchthe43whenyousay，I’msorry．Holdyourheadupandlookthepersoninthe44．sohe’11knowyou45it．” Mymotherthusmadethekeypointofa(n)46apology：itmustbedirect．Youmustnever47tobedoingsomethingelse．Youdonot48apileofletterswhileapologizingtoaperson49inpositionafterblaminghimorherforamistakethatturnedouttobevour50．Youdonotapologizetoahostess，whoseguestofhonoryoutreat51，bysendingflowersthenextdaywithoutmentioningyourbad52． Oneoftheimportantthingsweshoulddoforan53apologyisareadinessto54theresponsibilityforourcarelessmistakes．Weareusedtomakingexcuses．whichleavesno55forotherpersonto56us．Sincemostpeopleareopen—hearted，theno—excuseapologyisbetter．Leavebothpartiesfeeling57aboutthemselves．That，afterall，isthe58foreveryapology．It59littlewhethertheapologizeriswhollyoronlypartlyatfault：answeringforone’s60encouragesotherstotaketheirshareoftheblame． 阅读以上短文，回答161-180题。 第41题答案是__________
A.provided B.mixed C.compared D.treated正确答案A
